hair style help

I need help with the hair. I like my curls - so would like to keep it as natural as can be, without the friz. And certainly not up in a bun/ cross bun/ low bun or anything- though I dont think theres any getting away from it.

Hair accessories are OK. Flowers or something.

Put up some pictures of what I'd like the hair to look like.

I have 2 choices of hair & make up people- This lady called Zarine, who I've heard is pretty good. Though when I met her yesterday, she insisted on a 'Petal Hair bun' or straight hair. Humprhh. The other choice is K's cousin. Hairstylist trained in Singapore, who is young and hip. But what If i dont like her style? Its going to be a little odd- telling her.